语录集

01/08/14

1）别人对你好，是一种选择。别人对你不好，也只是一种选择。
我们没有对他人谴责与要求他人必须对我们好的权利。说说了就算吧！

2）拥有向他人分享的这个想法的确很好，但是别人愿不愿意听你分享不由得我们强求。别人不愿意听不代表对你有意见，但是说了又说那真的会对你有意见。

3）亲情，友情，爱情和信仰等都没有绝对的长存。太执着于任何事物，都只会把自己压垮。

4）人生短短几十年，遗憾的一次就够了。执迷不悟不会显得你很痴情。

5）当你觉得人生太沮丧时，记得，没有什么东西是永远不顺的，好的事物可能就在后头。

10/08/14

1) 懂得再多语言也比不上如何向别人沟通。不懂语言别人可能只不理解你，但是不懂沟通别人就会误解你。

2） 就算再有钱，再有智慧，没有好的情绪智商，你也只是个穷人。

3）不管人怎么成长，只要思想不成长，你永远只是个小孩。

4） 坦白与摊牌不只是谐音，其实对绝大部分人来说都是同样的意思：撕破脸！

5） 别人的原则只为他人而存在，告不告诉你别人有分寸，你有没有碰到底线自己好自为之。

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雨天

每个人对雨天都有不同的感觉。有人可能觉得炎热的天气以后来场大雨让人有种终于可以歇一口气的感觉，但是对于常年雨水泛滥的地区，雨天更是恐怖的象征。对我来说，雨天带给我的是一种灰色的感觉，莫名的安心与无形的不安并存的时候。

或许，我更期待的是，每场雨后，所呈现的会是怎么样的彩虹......

时间

人一生所赐予的时间，就连一呼一吸的每一秒都算在内。

没有太多的时间然我们感慨，更没有朝夕让我们感叹。

当我们懂得珍惜时间，自然我们就懂得怎么去珍惜身边的人事物。

也会清楚地看见，“时间”所引领着我们的道路前方，等着的是怎么样的光景。

海

海，在每个人眼里就只有眼般大小，其实际的宽大没人能想象。
海，在我脑里被扩大了数万倍，可我脑子没那么大的容量，最终让自己淹死其中。
可能连最初为何想象到海的原因都不得知晓。

但是，人一生活着，就为了这片与我没有半点瓜葛的茫茫大海吗？

 

“放”下，松手，继续往前走......

“放”，一个动词，把重量从身上减轻。
一般情况下，纯粹地从手上放下东西，不见得很难。而且手酸了，总该放下让双手好好休息吧？
如果说是要放下心里的事物，那又另当别论。人的执著很可怕，它就好像是利齿，咬着一样东西就很难放开！执著虽然让我们能够坚持与一个立场，但是过分的执著会让我们同时失去很多应该珍惜的。

我过分的执著，让我坚持我的立场走到了今天，回头一看，其实我所失去的东西，比起得到的来得贵重得多．．．

因为过分执著．．．．．．我不懂得珍惜了．．．．．．

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懂得珍惜，放开执著，是一般课业不会给分的学问，也是我该深度希考与改变的一样东西。

现在该做的，只有松开那双手，提起脚步沿路往前走．．．．．．

２１天的法则

只要在二十一天内不断的持续同一个动作，言语，或思想，就会成为永久的习惯．．．．．．

这是我的一个短期目标．．．．．．　

我不想再让自己与他人失望了。

A Gemini in Nowhere of December

21.12.2012                                                                                                                                     (Misty)

          A misty night with stars and the moon on the sky. The mist doesn't shroud the brightness, and the dimness is so beautiful to look in the eyes. The very first thing that came across my mind was a girl who told me how the twinkling of stars cheers her from night to night, when there's nobody listen to her cries. She's not charmingly pretty, but her upbeat spirit is the attractive thing to the lonely guy like me. What's a love to a person? Heart racing when you see her? Or the sense of calm and warmth whenever you are with her? The latter sounds more like a love to me. Just have the feeling that heart racing is nothing but the hormonal triggers. The love born from the mind would not be as simple as that. If I set her photo as my personal wallpaper would it be scaring her away? I should just stop questioning and wondering from here. She's not even comparable to the treasure you spent half of your life looking for. She's the woman that you wish to spend her rest of your life with you.

          A sudden change in people-people relationship isn't something of a big deal actually. But to imagine that the friends that you met and spent most of your time with them chatting, hanging out, do lot of stupid things together parting way with you, because something that you've done out of rage without knowing them or try to understand the situation can't be forgiven by them even after you've sincerely said sorry. Honestly, I've been tired mentally. The thing isn't turn out as simple as you did wrong, apologized, forgiven, then happy ever after. In the song "Payphone", by Marron 5:
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If "happy ever after" did exist
I would still be holding you like this
all those fairy tales are full of shit
one more fucking love song I'll be sicked
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This might sounds like just for love. But to a friendship that you valued the most, it turns out that the feeling is the same. I guess I need to have to cool down myself regardless of what gonna happen next. It's their decisions now to let it go and forgive me or not. I have no place to stand in convincing them anything anymore. Being too emotional to a thing will turn out bad eventually, even if it's love. Emotion just provides you with joy or sorrow, but love gives you care and calmness. Learn to control emotion is the first step in love yourself, and before you can love others you have to value yourself......